Ignite
For the woman aching to reignite her relationship—or call in the depth, devotion, and desire she’s never fully felt... yet
An 8 week journey to reclaim your embodied radiance, inspire masculine devotion, and embody the depths of feminine polarity... all without abandoning yourself to futile fixing or performing.
The Ache Is Loud. And It won’t be Silenced.
You've done the work.
You've invested in your growth… therapy, workshops, self-development. Explored attachment. Communicated consciously.
Defined your boundaries.
Practiced being “safe” when you really wanted to scream.
You're proud enough of the life you’ve created, and you should be.
Yet something in you also knows there's more available...
You catch glimpses of deeper aliveness… moments when you feel truly magnetic, when conversation flows effortlessly, when there's an electric quality to connection that makes everything feel more... real.
But those moments feel elusive. Random chances rather than an ongoing experience.
Maybe it's the way some women seem to capture masculine presence effortlessly… not through performance, but through natural radiance. And you wonder what that would feel like in your own body.
Or maybe you notice you default to a managing ‘masculine’ mode that feels the need to do it all, even in the heights of intimacy, and you want to know what it might be like to truly soften and surrender.
It could be that you’ve realised that the walls that have kept you safe for so long, are blocking you from being met in the way your soul is aching for.
You sense there's a way of being in relationship with the masculine that's more alive, more electric, more essential, more... real.
You long to be met... taken, held, hungered for.
But in intimacy, you default to capable & independent.
Even as a deeper, feminine current aches to be felt.
Maybe you attract partners who admire your mind but miss your depth.
Or you’re in a relationship that looks fine—but feels flat.
You crave more...
More aliveness in your body
More spark in your connection
More chemistry without negotiation.
You want his responsibility, his commitment, his integrity, his trustability.
And you might be hesitant to admit it out loud,
and…
You also want his provision.
His protection.
And for him to claim you.
Completely.
But when you name the ache?
It backfires. He gets defensive.
Says it’s work. Stress. A phase.
Suddenly you’re the problem.
Too much. Too needy.
So you shrink. Shut down.
Or explode.
And feel more invisible than ever.
You've Tried Everything, Done Everything, Shown Up in All the ‘Right’ Ways… Yet Still Sense Something's Missing
You don't want to perform femininity.
You don't want to manipulate outcomes.
And you definitely don't want to abandon your authentic self to create connection.
But the longing persists. There's something in you that knows…You were made to experience more than surface-level connection.
More than relating purely through your mind. More than praying and hoping that your partner will finally get “it”. More than having chemistry be a rare, random occurrence rather than something you can consciously create.
And yet…
The idea of leaving or giving up on true depth feels just as unbearable.
You've carefully built your life.
Maybe there's a partner, maybe a family, definitely achievements that matter.
Life is pretty good, some might even find it enviable. Yet the ache for something more won’t go away.
Maybe you ask yourself sometimes “is it too much to want this?”
And even though you doubt, deep down you know…If he came up behind you, slid his arms around your waist, and whispered:
“I can’t stop thinking about how much I want you, and how much I love this life I have with you”
That everything would fall into place.
You don’t want to go all Kali and burn it down in a fit of feminine catharsis.
But you also don’t want to spend the next decade trying to survive the slow suffocation of being untouched, unmet and unclaimed as you struggle to tap into the depths of your deepest feminine essence.
So you’re caught.
Between the woman who’s over it and the woman who still hopes something is going to shift.
You Don’t Need More Time, Better Words,
or Another All-Night Fight That Ends in a
Temporary Peace Treaty Where...
Nothing. Actually. Changes.
The Real Transformation Happens When You Learn to Cultivate Your Deepest Feminine Gifts—and Develop The Courage & Capacity to Live Them Through Your Body, Breath & Being
If this is your true desire
It will be a pleasure to welcome you into:
Ignite
An 8-week journey to reignite intimacy, inspire his devotional presence, and feel deeply desired — without begging, bargaining, or abandoning yourself.
This isn’t about seduction tactics, scripts,
or pretending to be soft when you're brimming with fire.
It’s about revealing the woman who already knows how to stir presence with her gaze, how to call devotion with a single shift in breath, and how to lead the relational field without ever leaving her body.
🔥 Imagine feeling eros coursing through you so naturally that tension, closeness, and magnetism return without effort.
🔥Imagine intimacy as a live electric current that you choose. Something you both feel without even a word needing to be spoken.
🔥 Imagine him reaching for you—urgent, grounded, turned on—because your energy no longer says prove yourself, it says worship is welcome.
🔥Imagine watching months or even years of stagnancy and disappointment dissolve in days… without a single hard conversation or trip to a therapist’s office.
🔥Imagine feeling him track you across the room — your breath, your hips, your mood—not out of obligation, but because he can’t not.
And if you’re desiring new partnership..
🔥 Imagine calling in a new lover after years of swiping through spiritual f*ckboys, emotionally avoidant breathwork bros, and commitment-phobic Peter Pans — only to feel a grounded, present man choose you clearly from the start.
This is what happens when you let the feminine lead not with performance…
but with embodied transmission.
You stop chasing connection,
and start calling it in.
Not through force.
Through frequency.
Desire deepens.
Trust roots deeper.
Devotion is inevitable.
And leadership rises in him…
because it’s already pulsing in you.
How Ignite Will Reactivate You
This immersive journey blends erotic intelligence, feminine embodiment, and energetic re-patterning to return you to the kind of woman whose presence speaks louder than words and reshapes the entire field of love around her.
Embodied Feminine Polarity Course
Re-awaken the six key feminine signatures that most women were never taught to trust — each one capable of reigniting a cold or distant relationship, or magnetizing a new one to meet you with the presence, polarity, and devotion that you truly do deserve.
Comprehensive video instruction teaches you everything you need to know about these polarities.
Activation Practices & Shadow Clearings
A series of guided feminine polarity somatic rituals, daily micro-practices and shadow clearings designed to reawaken the pulse of pleasure, power, and magnetic presence in your body.
You will experience the shift in your body week by week… how you feel, walk, touch, speak, and even breathe.
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8 Live Group Transmissions
Each week during the journey, we enter into live, sacred space via Zoom — designed for real-time refinement, energetic precision, and somatic nuance.
A space to bring what’s alive in your practice, whether its resistance, breakthrough, or confusion, and have it witnessed, decoded, and elevated through expert facilitation and the group field.
Vibrant Support Community
It may be a man instructing and guiding you into these polarities, yet it is the community of women in this course that will make it come alive.
For the duration of the course, you will be invited into a community of peers. Each week you will be paired with a support sister, and you will have access to a group discussion space for sharing, celebration and knowing that this journey is not one you have to take alone.
The Live Journey
How You’ll Be Guided Back to the Woman Who Turns Heads, Softens Armor, and Re-Awakens Devotion—Just by Being in the Room
OPENING THE CONTAINER
From Ice-Cold Distance to a Flicker of Return
We begin by gently breaking the trance... years of stagnancy, resentment, or shutdown no longer get to define the next chapter for you.
This first portal invites you into the foundations of embodied practice and somatic polarity.
You’ll learn how to drop into the energetic trinity of devotion, trust, and intimacy in a way that immediately shifts the atmosphere in your life.
This is where the ice begins to melt.
Where he might look at you twice.
Where you feel the first flicker of heat again — between your hips, your heart, and his attention.
RADIANCE
Radiance isn't forced joy. It's the light that naturally pours from you when you stop dimming yourself for anyone else’s comfort.
It’s in the way you can’t help but stop to smell the flowers. The overwhelming awe of taking in the sunset. It’s in the delight of all the little things that when you slow down actually make life special.
And suddenly… you find that the masculine wants to do things for you. Serve you, help you, support you, protect you, provide for you, love you.
The secret is… your radiance is the thing he lives for. You delight in the world, and he delights in you.
DISCERNMENT
When your “NO” isn’t a protest, but a pulse of clarity, everything changes.
You stop overexplaining. You just choose.
And without any more disempowered compromises.
Just like the womb selects what legacy will be chosen to enter this reality… the empowered feminine decides who is allowed to enter her body and her heart.
You skip the family dinner that drains you. You pause after the offhand joke and let the silence land... And for the first time in a long time, the masculine notices. He stops pushing back and starts respecting.
Your standards become magnetic instead of demanding, and he is left with no choice but to rise to meet them.
OPENNESS
True openness isn't about being easily available without any boundaries, it's about being receptive to be truly contacted.
When you drop the invisible walls around your heart (the ones built from past or expected disappointments), something shifts in how you breathe, how you hold eye contact, how you enter a room.
The masculine cannot help but respond to openness with presence. Without even knowing why, the masculine turns towards an open woman and can't help but want to be close to her.
This is how you get him to pay attention, with nothing more than how you feel on the inside.
DESIRE
There's a difference between needy wanting and the kind of desire that makes a man's spine straighten.
When you let yourself crave him — his touch, his presence, his devotion — without apology or strategy, it awakens something primal.
Here you’ll learn to unapologetically embody the insatiable hunger that lives deep inside you, and luxuriate in how inevitably irresistible it really is.
When you truly embody desire, you get what you want.
In all the ways.
NURTURING
True nurture flows from fullness, not emptiness.
Not depletion. Not overwhelm. Not resentment. Not bitterness.
This is the difference between a woman who's giving, or withholding, to earn love...
... and a woman who's so full, her generosity pours out like honey.
Suddenly, he's doing the dishes without being asked. Taking care of things that have been put off forever. Leaving you notes and planning dates. He longs for your nourishment.
Because when your care comes from joy, he treasures it like gold.
SUBMISSION
This is the ultimate feminine taboo. The latent power in women that the world tries to pretend doesn’t exist.
Submission is the art of pure surrender. The ability to let go into the ecstasy of complete abandon. This is the epicentre of feminine pleasure, so sacred and so profane all at once.
This intensely erotic energy summons from him the most profound level of responsibility and care. Conscious dominance.
True dominance isn’t about controlling or taking from the feminine, it’s about serving her. The dominant man is so present, and so attuned to the slightest tremble in her body that the release available to her is truly cosmic.
You give yourself to the right man, in the right way, at the right time… and he will take you further and deeper than you could have ever imagined possible.
ECSTATIC INTEGRATION
The Relationship Shift Is Real… Now What?
Whether you’ve reignited your current relationship or called in an entirely new field of attention and love, this closing module helps you integrate what’s awakened.
This is not the end of your journey, it’s the stabilization of a new relational baseline.
You’ll reflect, embody, and anchor the deeper polarity you’ve activated…
And receive guidance on sustaining this frequency, navigating inevitable contractions, and leading from feminine clarity without collapsing into old patterns.
This last session will take the experiences and insights you’ve gained, and show you how to land into the body of work for life.
There is only ever deeper to go.
LIVE Journey Details
~ 8 Weekly Group Transmissions
Each week begins with a live transmission designed to activate the polarity you'll be embodying. These aren't passive teachings—they're energetic initiations that awaken each feminine essence in your body and being.
Week by week, you'll feel these qualities come alive: Discernment. Radiance. Openness. Desire. Nurturing. Submission. And finally, Integration. Each activation sets the frequency for your week of practice, giving you the energetic template to embody as you move through your days — and your relationships.
Can't make it live? Every session is recorded and available within 24 hours.
Sundays (North America Afternoon/Evening)
Mondays (Australasia mornings)
Mondays (Europe & US Mornings; Australasia Evenings)
Your Invitation Into Ignite
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WHAT YOU'RE RECEIVING WHEN YOU SAY "YES"
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I Wish I did this 10 Years ago...
Real stories from those whose relationships were rewired by this work.
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About the Faciliator
Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating and has spent over a decade guiding individuals and couples into deeper connection, clarity, and embodiment.
Known for his ability to translate complex psychological and spiritual frameworks into grounded, practical transformation. His work integrates authentic relating, attachment repair, polarity dynamics, and awakening practices into a cohesive path of relational evolution.
Who This Is Ripe For...
This isn’t for the version of you who wants to stay cold, disappointed and punishing. But if something in your chest stirs when you read this… it might be time.
Ignite is for you if:
1. You feel the ache of distance in your relationship
You’ve talked, waited, tried, and maybe even punished. But deep down, you know: if anything’s going to shift this, it starts with your frequency.
Even if there’s still a part of you that wants him to suffer for how far he drifted.
2. You’re single—and quietly wondering what’s kept real love out of reach.
You're done with platonic nice-guys, and heart-wrecking fuck boys.
And you’re ready to become the woman whose field does the inviting… and who is met with depth, devotion, and clean desire.
3. You’ve done the inner work. The mindset work. The healing.
You’re ready to stop managing it all and start transmitting what you want to receive.
4. You’re powerful in so many areas—but in intimacy, you feel collapsed, resentful, or invisible.
To inspire his presence, not with pressure, but with your essence.
5. You’re successful, self-aware, and even support others in their growth
You are ready to change this, permanently.
It's time to experience the kind of love, intimacy and relationship that you have always known is possible... without any more compromises.
6. You want to feel wanted again—not just for your body, but for your being.
7. You feel empowered investing in yourself in this way
You’re ready for the thrill of something new. Something that wakes your system. Something that stirs what’s been sleeping.
8. You feel safe exploring that thrill because the container is clean, honest, and regret-free.
No shame. No pressure. Just integrity.
See yourself above?
What Other Women Asked Before Offering Their Full-Bodied YES.
No. This work isn’t about getting him to do anything, it’s about shifting the energy between you.
You may feel a part of you wanting him to “meet you halfway” or “do his share.” That’s valid, and it’s often coming from a tired, wounded place. But those demands rarely inspire the response you long for.
When your frequency shifts, the field recalibrates.
He won’t feel pressured. He’ll feel pulled.
That might happen in an instant, or a few days later. It might look like him brushing your hair off your shoulder and holding eye contact for the first time in weeks. Or it might look like him planning a weekend away, just because.
Yes. Deeply. And you’re not behind, broken, or alone for being here without a partner. This space holds you fully.
This work isn’t just about reigniting an existing relationship, it’s about becoming the kind of woman whose very presence reshapes the relational field.
When your body leads with clarity, softness, radiance, or hunger, without performing or posturing, you stop attracting unavailable, unready, or unaligned partners.
You start calling in men who feel you, cherish you, and want to rise in your presence.
Whether love is already in your life or just on the horizon, this work prepares your system to receive it fully.
You’ll feel them. Not as a concept, but as a lived experience.
In your body. In your breath. In how you move, speak, and soften.
This isn’t about mindset, information or learning new strategies.
It’s about awakening the feminine signals that were always yours, and watching what happens when the field begins to respond.
This is embodiment work.
Sometimes it’s subtle. Sometimes it’s seismic.
But it’s never just theory.
Yes, and it’s designed with that in mind.
This isn’t a performative or high-trigger space. You’ll never be asked to override your nervous system, perform intimacy, or move faster than your body allows.
Every practice is invitational. You’re encouraged to go at your own pace, adapt what doesn’t feel supportive, and stay grounded in what feels true for you.
Many women with trauma have found this work to be not just safe, but deeply reparative. Because here, your power isn’t in pushing through. It’s in listening to your body, honoring its signals, and slowly returning to a form of feminine expression that doesn’t cost you your safety.
That fear is real, and deeply valid. When the warmth has been gone for years, it can feel like the door is sealed shut. But most women underestimate how quickly a man can re-attune, re-engage, and re-devote when the right energetic textures are present.
Now, we can’t promise how any specific man will respond.
But if the relationship still has a pulse, it will beat faster, and hotter.
Perhaps most importantly, you’ll feel something shift in your own skin.
That sensation will bring the clarity you’ve likely been aching for: to know whether he can rise with you… or whether it’s time to rise on your own.
Absolutely. This isn’t the kind of “work” that demands perfection or rigid consistency.
Polarity isn’t built through hustle, it’s awakened through frequency. Sometimes all it takes is one fully felt practice… one embodied shift… one reclaimed expression of desire or softness… to spark a complete change in the field.
That moment might arrive in Week 1. It might land in Week 4.
But it only takes one of those moments to make your investment more than worth it.
You’re not behind if you miss a call or skip a practice. This journey meets you exactly where you are, and trusts your body to receive what it’s ready for, when it’s ready.
Have any questions that aren't answered here?
Email us: support@evolverelating.com
Here’s what I can promise:
This path—of reclaiming your feminine polarity, your power, your eros—will change you.
It will move energy that’s been frozen.
It will bring heat back to your hips, heart, and voice.
It will feel like coming home to the woman you were before the shutdowns, the strategy, and the subtle self-abandonments.
And it will give your relationship
—whether current or future—
the best possible chance to rise.
From this place, you’ll know what’s real.
You’ll no longer settle for something that drains you,
or chase something that can’t meet you.
You’ll become the kind of woman who is unmistakably felt, honoured, and chosen—by life, by love, and by any man lucky enough to hold your gaze.
You’re not too much.
You’re not too late.
And you’re not wrong for still wanting more.
Ready to lead with your frequency—and let everything else rise to meet it?
