Self Mastery

Powerful tools for embodied boundaries

The Boundaried course shows you how to develop an elegant, embodied and powerful boundary system to feel safety and trust in showing up fully in the world

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Heal your boundaries

“If you have to struggle to assert a boundary, it means you haven’t embodied it yet”

What makes Boundaried different from other courses on boundaries is the emphasis on embodiment.

The focus is not on what you say, but who you are on the inside.

How solid are your boundaries?

Your boundaries are what define, protect, and contain you

Without well-developed boundaries, you can't experience closeness with another

Instead what you will experience is triggers, anxiety and avoidance.

A constant need and hyper-vigilance to protect yourself, or an inability to protect yourself

A tendency to share too much of yourself and too easily, or an inability to share anything vulnerable at all.

Think of boundaries like a filter

They have two jobs: keep you safe (protection) and help you express your best self (containment).

Protection boundaries help you let the right people and circumstances into your life while keeping the harmful ones out.

Containment boundaries, on the other hand, help you reveal the most authentic and beautiful parts of you, while limiting those parts that can sabotage or create damage and chaos.

Damaged boundaries can be either weak, or walled-off

If your boundaries are weak, you won’t be able to keep out the negative experiences that hurt you AND you won’t be able to stop yourself from ruining your own life and relationships.

If your boundaries are walled-off though you will have difficulty letting in the fullness of life and love AND you won’t be able to let others truly feel and know you... living a life of loneliness.

Developing embodied boundaries is the solution to ALL of these challenges.

The better your boundaries, the better your life.

The benefits of boundaried

What You Will Experience

Embodiment is a way of practicing developing our energetic boundary system. When this is online, it means you don’t have to worry about WHAT to say, because you will already know HOW to be.

Empowerment

The ease and strength to say no to everything you no longer want

Connection

A calm inner safety that effortlessly attracts meaningful intimacy

Openness

Deeper trust in receiving the life and relationships you desire

Authenticity

The pleasure of sharing yourself and being truly heard and seen

Course modules

Deeply understand your boundary system

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Module 1

Boundary Fundamentals
  • Trauma & Boundaries
  • Boundarylessness & Walls
  • Foundations of Embodiment

Module 2

Protection Boundaries
  • Flow, Exchange & Intensity
  • Hypersensitivity & Overprotection
  • The 4 Boundary Domains

Module 3

Containment Boundaries
  • Moderation, Mediation & Modulation
  • Moving Towards & Moving Away
  • Embodied Integrity

Module 4

Differentiation
  • Dysfunctional Dynamics of Relating
  • Separateness & Togetherness
  • Intimacy & Boundaries

Module 5

Boundary Repair
  • Core Wounds
  • Boundary Hooks
  • Elegant Embodied Boundaries

Module 6

Bonus Live Workshops
  • Ending the people pleaser
  • Softening the armour
  • The power of attunement
  • Revealing yourself

What you will receive

This course will guide you through a synergistic set of educational lectures, tools and practices to powerfully transform your boundary system

Guided Meditation

The meditation practices contained in Boundaried help ensure the boundaries you develop become gently instilled in the deepest parts of you.

Core Lessons

Five core lessons teach you the boundary technology. Learn what boundaries actually are, how they work, and how you can practice and develop your boundary system on a daily basis.

Embodiment Practices

The heart of the Boundaried process is embodiment. These embodiment practices use movement and visualization to create a mind-body connection healing and strengthening your boundaries from the inside out.

Bonus Workshops

Four recorded bonus workshops cover the four major boundary dysfunctions, and eight boundary challenges. These live workshop go deeper into specific applications, liberating old patterns and revealing a more deeply empowered self.

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"I consider the time I have spent attending Damien's courses as an extraordinary juncture in my personal growth and development. The knowledge and insights gained from his teachings have proven to be pivotal and have had a profound impact on my life. "

Joanna Addison

Mental Health Worker

"This has been an absolute game changer for me. It has opened me up to incredible opportunities in life that I thought I would never get to experience. Prior to this i found myself in patterns that led to disconnection, people pleasing and panic attacks. What I believe to be possible in my life has radically shifted. "

Thomas Blom Karlsen

Student

"As someone who wasn’t allowed to take up space in the world as a child, Damien’s work gave me specific trauma-informed exercises that allowed me to finally feel more confident moving through the world safer in my own skin. "

Taylor Houchens

Counsellor

"I wish I did this 10 years ago. The insights, tools and embodiment practices have actually made a change in my life, in my relationships. I feel confident and empowered and I can now experience love and freedom on a deeper level. "

Floor Pijpers

Wellbeing Coach

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Course Instructor
Damien Bohler
Founder & Facilitator

Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, developmental psychology, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.

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