The Fundamentals of Authentic Relating
Deepen all of your relationships with transformational authentic relating skills in this 8 module course
Why Choose a Membership?
Receive ongoing support, resources, and a community that heals & evolves with you every step of the way.
Imagine having so much confidence in your relating skills that all of your relationships become nourishing, whole & empowered.
The true potential of relationships is that they can be sanctuaries of connection, healing, growth and evolution… all without the pain, frustration, loneliness and endless cycles of conflict.
This is possible.
Your journey to best relationships of your life starts here.
Authentic Relating will transform your relationships
All relationships are created through the way we relate.
What Fundamentals of Authentic Relating teaches
Life is composed of relationships.
No matter where we turn, we will find that the quality of our life is fundamentally tethered to the quality of our relationships.
Love, family, friendships, community, prosperity, and sex… all come back to the quality of our relationships with other people.
“Humans are not solitary creatures. We are in relationship, always. Do you ever stop and ask yourself, “What is the quality of these relationships in my life?”
— Damien Bohler, course creator
We grow high-quality relationships through high-quality relating....
Yet relating is not something we are taught.
We grew up watching the adults around us and many of us didn’t have the best role models. So we’ve all inherited less-than-elegant ways of relating.
These ways of relating have been harming our relationships. Creating conflict and misunderstanding where it doesn’t need to exist.
The great thing is that relating is a skill that really can be developed.
Authentic Relating empowers all of your relationships
The skills you learn with Authentic Relating are the foundational building blocks of communication, and apply any kind of relationship.
Romantic
Move from pain, conflict and disconnection… into playful, intimate and secure love.
Friendships
Have more fun, deep, mutually supportive and nourishing friendships in your life
Family
Create family connections where you all feel seen, heard and loved… parents and children alike.
Work
Discover the communication tools to create more flow, more team-playing and better boundaries in your work life.
Embodied Relating
We will explore a powerful synergy between deep listening and vulnerability through embodying the principles of presence, acceptance and non-judgment.
Reflective Listening
Developing this listening skill leads to a magical ability to really have others feel seen, heard and validated in your presence and offers a state of deep safety and relaxation.
Curiosity
Curiosity is a relational tool that leads others to comfortably reveal their depths, creating the possibility of beautiful and novel bonding experiences.
Transformative Listening
Expanding on the reflective listening module, here we develop the skill to offer profoundly transformative reflections and deep experiences of feeling seen.
Desire
Having the ability to vulnerably express your needs and desires leads to the depth and quality of relational experiences that you most want.
Boundaries
Elegant boundaries are the ability to maintain differentiation from others while also feeling close to them. This capacity is absolutely crucial in healthy relating.
Attunement
This module teaches how to step into the “we” space. Stepping into this field with another, even for a moment, is deeply nourishing and expansive, beyond words.
Appreciation
When we appreciate things, they go up in value. So too with people. This skill is a superpower for deepening intimacy and creating warm relationships.
Master Your Relating. Master Your Relationships.
Show up and be seen as all of you
Develop deep empathy & presence
Navigate difficult conversations with grace
Create stimulating & trust based connections
Heal relationship wounds through vulnerability
Feel confident in your boundaries & desires
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Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, developmental psychology, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.
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