Purity and Capacity
Understanding masculine-feminine polarity through the language of the heart
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This Essential Polarity Drives Romantic Connection
In Romantic Relationships communication is always happening between the masculine and the feminine, whether we are conscious of it or not.
Understanding the nature of this communication liberates us to connect with more depth, love and appreciation for our innate differences.
Cultivate Love & Trust
The Healthy Expression of this polarity creates deep currents of love and trust between the masculine and the feminine
When our pure expression is distorted…
And our capacity to receive is limited…
Shame and blame will inevitably take hold
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Relationships then become a painful grind of projection, blame and endless fighting
The feminine is unable to express her feelings cleanly.
The masculine is unable to receive her without taking it personally.
When she criticizes, he collapses When he collapses, she fears
When he reacts, she hurts When she hurts, he feels shame
Round and around, feeding a toxic matrix of negativity.
She is confused… “why can’t he just hear my pain?”
He is anguished… “why do I always hurt her?”
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The feminine heart needs to feel and express her feelings.
The masculine heart needs to know he is enough.
The degree to which she can feel and express cleanly is her purity.
The degree to which he can hear feelings without taking it personally is his capacity.
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Together these dynamics of purity and capacity create the space, security and clarity in a relationship for love & connection to flow easily
And when love flows, and trust grows ~ we thrive
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Your relationship, or future romance, will thank you for this
In this workshop we will cover both theory and practice so that you can cultivate a deeper understanding of this dynamic, where it goes wrong, and how you can bring it back on track.
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Capacity
Discover a simple practice to ground, open and receive with the full depths of masculine presence and power.
Purity
Be guided into a deep experience of pure feminine expression and sensation... reveal the blocks that prevent the natural flow of bliss.
For the Masculine
Understand and transcend the mechanism that causes collapse, reactivity and shame in the face of intense feminine emotion.
For the Feminine
Learn the distinction between truly vulnerable feelings and projected emotions so you are received more easily and deeply
What you receive
Theory
Educational content presented in a two-hour live recorded workshop.
Practice
Guided practice to understand emotional expression through masculine-feminine polarity
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Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.
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With the subtle power of masculine and feminine communication
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